Do you feel that no matter what you say to your ex, you always somehow manage to push her further and further away from you? Does it seem like you can’t even have a simple conversation without arguing? As loving humans, it is in our DNA to try and resolve issues, however, a lot of times when we are trying to fix the situation, we end up making things worse. Since you can’t read minds, it can be difficult to know exactly what to say to convince your ex to get back together with you. Well, no matter what her personality is, there are 3 phrases that will catch her off guard and hopefully make her want you back.

“You were right, and I was wrong.” For some reason, when someone tells us we were right, we instinctively say, “No, you were right.” In a failed relationship, sometimes it doesn’t matter whose fault it was because 9 times out of 10, you were both at fault. By making a sacrifice and taking all of the blame, your ex girlfriend will look at you in a much different light. This is especially beneficial if you don’t usually take responsibility for your actions. However, if you don’t take responsibility for you actions, then that’s probably why the relationship ended in the first place, but that’s another article for another day.

“I want you to be happy.” Even though it may be difficult for you to imagine your ex being happy with anyone but you, the truth is, deep down, you really do want her to be happy. Sometimes in relationships, we hold one another back because we refuse to let the other person go and we are actually hindering them more than we could ever imagine. Tell your ex that your number one concern is her happiness, and although you want her to be happy with you, it’s ok if she wants to be happy with someone else. The trick is, you have to really mean it. You can’t pretend that you want someone to be happy if you don’t actually have their best interest at heart. So once you mentally grasp the concept of wanting to see your ex happy, you won’t care about the end result.

“Let’s start over.” Do you ever notice that when you’re in the middle of an argument, there tends to be a lot of finger pointing and things that happened in the past are usually mentioned? This only causes more problems because it’s like pouring salt into a fresh wound, and the person who is being attacked becomes very defensive. Everyone deserves a clean slate, and when you are holding things against someone, you’re really only hurting yourself. When you are constantly hanging things over your partner’s head and bringing up things that happened years ago, it can easily ruin a wonderful relationship. Talk to your ex and make a pact to not bring up negative things that happened. When you commit to starting over, it will clear the air and your relationship will be able to flourish and mature.

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