One of the most confusing things about a breakup is finding the balance between giving up on the possibility of getting back together, and taking steps to resolve the issues that caused the breakup in the first place. When you’re trying to learn how to read signs that your ex wants you back, you may be feeling overwhelmed and confused. These tips will help you read the correct signs and help you figure out if your ex does indeed want you back.
Does your ex just “happen” to show up in at the places he knows you hang out? This may be a telltale sign that your ex wants you back. You have to be rational about this sign though. For instance, if your ex shows up at the movie theater, that doesn’t apply because a movie theater is a very public place, and anyone could show up there. However, if your ex starts showing up in places that they didn’t usually frequent, such as your 5 AM spinning class, your favorite cafe or at the driving range, then they probably want you back. Your ex is using these opportunities to show you that they are dedicated to winning you back, even if it’s inconvenient for them.
Does your ex text you for no real reason, or do they “mistext” you on a frequent basis? I’m sure we’ve all been guilty of both of these things. We’ve all made up reasons to text an ex, just so we can test the waters and see if they reply. However, if a normal text won’t do the trick, it is common to “accidentally” send a text that you “meant” to send to someone else. If you see an increase of random and accidental texts from your ex, then they are definitely missing you, and they want you back in their life.
Is your ex Facebook stalking you? Do you notice that 15 minutes after you like a friend’s photo, your BlackBerry notifies you that your ex commented on the same picture? Once you leave a witty comment on your friend’s status, does your ex leave a comment within the hour? If so, this is definitely a sign that your ex wants you back. The fact that they are aware of your online activity shows that they are focused on your every move, and by commenting after you, they want to remind you that they exist. This also means that they are checking to make sure you aren’t leaving any flirty comments on anyone’s profile.
If you really have no intention of getting back together with your ex, it is a good idea to be very clear about your feelings, so you don’t lead them on. Toying with someone’s feelings is not ok, and it is best to be honest about what you’re feeling. If you aren’t sure if you want to get back together, just tell your ex where you stand. This way if they continue to pursue you, at least they know how you feel.
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