My Ex is Dating Someone Else – What Should I Do?

If you are still in love with your ex, there is nothing worse than seeing him or her with someone else. You already miss the hugs, the warm embraces and the kisses. You certainly do not want to endure the pain of imagining those wonderful moments being taken from you by someone else. There is hope though. Just because your ex is with someone else right now does not mean that you do not have a chance at getting him or her back.

The first thing that you have to do is to make sure that you are keeping your jealous feelings in check. Do not tell your ex what a terrible mistake he is making. Do not have a verbal or physical confrontation with the new person your ex is with. Take a moment and realize that your ex is most likely involved in nothing more than a rebound relationship, which at its best – will last three or four months. This is the perfect amount of time to work on getting your ex back.

For the time being, be a friend to your ex. Do not bash the new partner, even if your ex comes to you to discuss a fight. It will be hard to resist but it is important that you must. You do not want your advice to blow up in your face. When the argument is over, your ex might view you as someone simply trying to destroy the new relationship. Be a shoulder to cry on and lend an ear. Wait for the relationship to naturally fall apart on its own. Then, when that happens, you can swoop in and show your ex how much better of a choice you are.

Now, just in case the breakup with the rebound person is temporary, which does happen, you do not want to bounce on your ex within the first couple of days. Allow your ex to mourn the loss of that relationship. If the mourning period is not all that long, you are in the clear. You will find that your ex will naturally gravitate to you, pending you are not being overbearing or trying to take advantage of the situation. By simply being there for your ex, you will show that you are a person that can be trusted and counted on – something the rebound ex apparently was not.

When you enter back into a relationship with your ex, you do want to make sure that you are taking it slow. You have to rebuild to relationship so do not make the mistake of thinking that things will pick up right where they left off.

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