Relationships are hard work but very rewarding.  You meet that special someone and fall in love and all is just fine but then for some reason you find you are all alone again and you don’t really know why.  It takes two to make a relationship work and sometimes one or both people involved forget this and they take the other for granted.  This is when the relationship gets difficult as feelings are getting hurt and then the inevitable happens; you break up.  You didn’t want this to happen but it did and now your ex seems as if he doesn’t want you back at all. Does this mean it’s really over?  No.  It is only completely over if you want it to be.

If you didn’t want the relationship to end, chances are you are doing everything in your power to try to get back together with your ex and from your ex’s point of view, your just making yourself look desperate and annoying.  All you are accomplishing is making your ex run in the other direction.  The good thing is that you can turn things around; it just takes time and patience.

The first thing you need to do it take a long look at what went wrong with the relationship and own up to what your part was in the breakup.  If he was telling you things during the relationship about what was bothering him and you blew it off then you need to address those issues.  By owning up to your mistakes you are showing him that you care about him and you realize that you were not giving your all to the relationship.

If you have been bugging him, trying to win him back then you need to stop and give him some space.  Show him that you respect his wishes and that you agree that you need to be apart.  Once you give him the space he needs, he will have time to heal from what ever it was that ended the relationship. This also gives you time to step back and evaluate what went wrong.  After you both have had some time apart, you will find that when you are around him things will be more relaxed and that you two can actually have a conversation.

There are tell-tale signs that he still care and doesn’t want things to be over either.  Take note on how he looks at you.  Does he still have that look of love in his eyes?  Does he look at you with interest again?  When you leave a room, turn to see if he is watching you.  If he is then you can be sure that you are still on his mind as he is on yours.  Use this to your advantage and give him something good to look at. Take pride in your appearance and dress to impress. Show him what he is missing.  You will find that he will want you back in no time at all.

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