Have you had a breakup, and want to makeup? Ending a relationship with a girlfriend can be tough. However, keep in mind that a relationship that has ended, hasn’t necessarily ended forever. After breaking up with your special someone, here are some ways to make her want you back:

1. Change your behavior.

It’s true that “showing is better than telling.” Evaluate your past relationship with your ex. Did your behavior contribute to the breakup? While we typically don’t like to admit such things, be honest about the situation. And if you determine that some of your behavior was inappropriate, then take the necessary steps to change it. Perhaps you were overly jealous or dishonest with your ex. Don’t just tell her that you’re sorry-SHOW that you are!

2. Spend time with her female friends.

This is oftentimes effective in stirring up jealousy in your ex. However, it’s crucial that you not go overboard, as this could cause certain people to react inappropriately (and require a restraining order). You don’t necessarily have to date your ex’s friends. And you definitely shouldn’t be dishonest about your intentions. However, by simply making some subtle suggestions, your ex girlfriend will likely start scratching her head and wonder what you’re up to.

3. Remember “that feeling” you had before.

Remember when you and your ex first fell in love, and remember how you felt. That’s the feeling that you want to get back. Many times we start off a relationship with a bang, but as time passes it becomes as stale as croutons. The key is to take a time machine of sorts, and get back the feeling you had during the early stages of your relationship. Try to make that magic happen again!

4. Ignore your ex right after the breakup.

“Ignoring” means ending all contact with her. Don’t visit, talk, e-mail, chat, or exchange messages through a courier pigeon. This action (inaction, actually) may seem counterproductive at first. But remember that saying that “absence makes the heart grow fonder.” By avoiding all contact with your ex for up to two weeks or so, you’ll get her to start wondering if she was the cause of the breakup. And there’s an excellent chance that she will then yearn to get back together with you! While ignoring someone you had a romantic relationship with can be tough, it can also be effective.

5. Don’t beg.

This no-no is one of the most effective ways to make your ex want you back. Begging will give your ex the impression that you’re desperate. And that would definitely put you at a disadvantage. Sure, you miss your ex and want to get back with her. But the key is to take steps that will make your ex yearn for you. You want her back, but be subtle and implicit about your intentions!

If you want your ex to want you back, these tips can help to make it happen. Always remember that a breakup doesn’t have to be forever. You can often still put things back together again. You may also want to check this website out if you want to learn an effective first step in getting her back for good.