All relationships will go through rough patches during the course of its lifetime. You will encounter challenges, concerns and issues that may or may not put an end to the love affair. In the end, it is all up to you and your partner to decide its fate. Now, if you have mutually decided to end the relationship, your logical step is to start the process of acceptance that, indeed, not all good things will last. However, you may also realize that you want your ex-boyfriend back!
Well, there is nothing wrong with changing your mind. It is, after all, the prerogative of women to change their minds about matters of the heart. And of course, it is also your right as a modern woman of the 21st century to pursue your love interest again and again albeit in a subtle manner. You are still a lady, are you not? But do beware that getting back with your ex-boyfriend may not be as easy as it sounds. Or at least, it will be harder to reconcile than to break up simply because feelings have been hurt and egos have been bruised. It may be difficult but it is not impossible so take heart.
The process of reconciliation will, of course, differ from one relationship to the next. You are the best judge about the right time, the right place and the right people to tap so as to achieve a happy reconciliation with your ex-boyfriend. Play it by heart with knowledge of his personality and you will not go wrong. Still, there are certain general suggestions on how to get back with your ex no matter the circumstances behind your break-up. It may be that you or your partner committed acts of infidelity. It may be that many people around your relationship are being too meddling. It may be due to irreconcilable differences.
First, do respect yourself. If you do, your ex-boyfriend will respect you, too, and you should know by now that mutual respect is one of the main foundations for a good relationship. In this case, respect means talking with your partner about the possibility for a second chance at your love without crossing the line into begging, cajoling and threatening him. All of these tactics will backfire sooner than later. Keep in mind that your second chances must be based on mutual consent, mutual respect and mutual love.
Second, do listen and listen well to what he has to say. Women are often guilty of talking too much but listening too little to what the men have to say and, in the process, leading to gradual estrangement. This time, you have to engage in a meaningful conversation. Go away from all distractions of friends and family as well as kids and work. Talk with just the two of you and rediscover yourselves as individuals and as couple. Of course, you will have to talk more than one time before you come to a mutual decision to come back together but your efforts will be worth the happiness in the end.
In conclusion, you want your ex-boyfriend back so bad that you are willing to do anything and everything possible to do so. But hold on to your sanity as you cannot do everything by yourself – let the love of your life meet you halfway, too.
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