So the relationship has ended but you are not ready to move on.  You are still in love with that man even though things got rough and the relationship ended.  Now it is time to win your man back.  You are willing to do all that you can to get him back but you need to take the right approach.  You need to make sure that you completely understand why you broke up to begin with and have a solution so that it does not get that bad again.

There had to be problems in the relationship since it ended so badly.  Once you admit to yourself what they were then you can make the first steps to get things back on track.  If you did something that broke the trust in the relationship then you need to make some steps to build that back up and it may be a long process, so be prepared.

Earning trust back in a relationship can take a lot of effort.  You will need to keep your promises and do what you say you will do.  If you tell him that you will be home at a certain time, be sure that you are there and that you are not late.  Invite him to go out with you and your friends so that he feels that you do not have anything to hide from him.

Most importantly, do all that you can to remind him of how good things were before the relationship got so bad.  You should bring up some of the special moments that you shared like what you did on your first date.  You could arrange to meet him at the first restaurant that you went to together.  Be sure you stay positive and do not bring up the rough patches in the relationship.  This is a time to focus on the positives, not the negatives.

Once you have spent some time with him and you feel like things are moving in the right direction, meaning your friendship is beginning to bud once again then you should take on the serious talking.  You will need to admit to anything that you did that caused the relationship to go sour.  It will be difficult but if you are serious about getting them back you will have to do it.  You need to let him know that you understand that you were wrong and that you will work hard to get things back on track.

When you have this serious conversation, do it in a place that emotions can run free for both of you.  You should keep the conversation calm and do all that you can to keep it from becoming an argument.  You should both feel free to cry, laugh, or express your frustrations but keep it at a level that will not lead you or him to walk away from the conversation feeling like it is useless and that the relationship does not have a chance at getting back on track.

You can get your man back if you take the time to remind them of what you had, admit to any wrong doings that you were guilty of, and are open to hear his point of view.  It will not be easy but if you are truly interested in getting things back on track then it is something that you really must do.

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