If you are looking for an all-encompassing definition of true love, the Bible is a good source.  You will know that yours is indeed true love when you are patient and kind towards the person you love; when you keep no record of wrongs; and when you always trust, hope and persevere.  In the end, your true love will never fail.

With such a comforting thought in mind, you can set out to win back your true love.  Of course, this is with the assumption that your misery while he is not in your life is not borne of a bruised ego, of a bad habit or of a bored life.  Instead, you have to look into yourself and be very sure that your feelings for him are, indeed, because you truly, madly and deeply love him.  Believe us – it will make the process of reconciliation so much easier on your part.

So, how does this process of reconciling with your true love starts?  Well, it starts with taking care of yourself, maybe for the first time since you have been in the relationship.  Arguably, we tend to lose the essence of who and what we are as an individual – the “I, me and myself” part – because we are so engrossed in our role as part of a couple – the “we, us and ourselves” aspect.

This should not be for, truly, a relationship is made up of two individuals with unique personalities who chose to be together despite their differences and because of their similarities.  If you allow yourself to become swallowed in the relationship, then your partner loses the individual he had the relationship with in the first place.

You must start to discover, delight and develop yourself for yourself.  In this way, you can go back to him the same person but a better edition and, hopefully, he will be, too.  If you truly love each other, you will delight in the new yet familiar person.  Then, when you feel that it is the right time to talk, you should swallow your pride and contact him first.  After all, nothing gets done when both of you let pride stand in the way of true love.

Take note that the emphasis is on the right time.  You should not rush back into the relationship because it can backfire in your face.  Instead, you should give him time to deal with the break-up, time to miss your presence and time to realize that you are his true love.  Give him space and that space will soon feel empty without you in it.  You may even find yourself being courted by your true love again!

But if you do take the first step towards reconciliation, you have to take it slowly but surely.  You may invite him to a friendly date with no strings attached, just to catch up on things that you may have missed in each other’s life.  Soon, your friendly dates can turn into the romantic dates, which both of you may have missed.

You can then gradually express your desire to get back together.  Keep in mind that men are not exactly mind readers so it is very important to tell them what is in your heart just as much as you can expect them to repay the favor.

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