While you cannot actually “make” your ex fall in love with you all over again, you can certainly give him or her a push in the right direction. The key is to make sure that your ex is given the chance to see just what is being missed. When you can do that, you are increasing your chances of finding yourself loved by your ex once again.
The best thing you can do for yourself and for the relationship is to keep busy. Get involved in town activities or join a charity group. Go out on Friday nights and hang out with your friends, both of the male and female gender. If you really want to stir up some emotions, you can go out on a casual date and find a way to make sure that your ex finds out about it. You don’t want to rub in the fact that you are dating. You want to keep everything calm and casual. The key is to get your ex jealous. When you can do this, you basically have him already coming right back into your arms. Men do not like seeing another man with someone they care about, even if they were the one that ended the relationship.
When it comes to talking with your ex, it is important to make sure that you are being friendly, but not overly social with him. Be polite and answer any questions be asks of you, such as how you are doing. The thing is though, you want to forget to ask him about how he is doing. Act like you are busy and you are rushed to go somewhere or to meet up with someone. It is not that you are ignoring him or being rude, but rather that you have other things to do.
If you find out that your ex is dating someone, make sure that you are keeping your emotions in check. You want him to be the jealous one, not the other way around. When a person is jealous, they lose control and you do not want that to be you losing the control. Be friendly and realize that there is very little chance that this new fling is anything serious. What he may be going through is a rebound relationship and luckily for you, those relationships usually only last a couple of months. Sometimes, they only last a couple of weeks so either way, you really do not have all long to wait before it falls apart all on its own.
There is certainly a lot of work ahead of you. If you really love or miss your ex then all of the time, energy and emotion you put into this will be well worth it – even if you do not get your way. At the very least, you will know what went wrong and how to prevent or correct it the next time you find yourself in a similar situation.
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